Through our own visits and those of the handful of LGBT tour operators who lead trips there, India is hospitable and welcoming to all visitors – including gay or lesbian couples or groups.
Some precautions need to be taken, but as for many countries with traditional societies, gay Western visitors also enjoy "tourist privilege," whereby the hosts overlook behaviors that may not be tolerated among their own countrymen.
In September 2018, homosexuality was made legal in India once again after it was criminalized in 2013 and previously decriminalized in 2009.
However, much to the surprise of the global LGBT community, transgender rights have improved in recent years with a ruling in 2014 granting legal recognition of a third gender in India (one of only a handful of countries with such a law). This has helped nudge acceptance of the mostly marginalized trans (hijara) community.
The legal status of LGBT locals is complex, but visitors don't have to worry about this, as long as they behave according to local customs and to be mindful of interacting/endangering locals.
One aspect of local life that often surprises gay visitors to India is the open affection that Indian men display with other men.
You will frequently see men walking arm-in-arm or hand-in-hand, or talking closely – and seemingly affectionately – to one another.
They are not gay, nor in a relationship. But, make no mistake: they are definitely not displaying sexual affection for one another in a physical manner.
There are no "no go" zones in India. All the spots that attract mainstream tourists are open and welcoming to LGBT guests, though it's always important (for all Western visitors) to be modest with respect to behavior.
LGBT travelers to India will want to keep in mind that India is still a conservative country, and a general sense of modesty will serve you well.
That said, tour operators who've brought many LGBT guests to India, report that being gay is simply a non-issue.
Still, it's advisable for same-sex guests (especially male guests) and heterosexual couples to avoid public displays of affection, particularly in rural locations which may be more conservative.
Lesbian couples, especially those who do not present in a gender non-conforming way, can travel under the radar.
Their concerns are more those of any female traveler: safety and fear of harassment.
Dating and hook-up apps do exist in India, and if using one of these apps, one should use discretion and be careful – just like anywhere.
For instance, do not meet at a private residence. Always meet someone at a public spot.
Be sure to tell your hotel front desk, tour operator, or guide that you are meeting a local, and provide the public meeting place and time.
For any traveler, India can be a challenging country – especially for first-timers.
For LGBT travelers, there is a little more complexity since homosexuality is technically illegal.
For these reasons we advise LGBT travelers to visit India on a guided group tour or, if traveling individually, to work with a trusted LGBT or LGBT-friendly tour operator or travel agent.
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