Why You Should Explore Before Settling Down In Your Hometown

by Brittany Bridgewater (United States of America)

A decision that pushed me to the edge USA

Did you know that 80% of people when they "grow up" end up living within 20 miles of their hometown? Shocking (and scary)! I am here to argue my case that for those who have yet to "settle down", PLEASE at least explore your country, live outside of your home state,go on a road trip/soul exploration journey before you decide that your home state is the one and only place for you. And if it is in the end, I am so happy for you. But 57% of people never live outside their home state even once to see if somewhere else is a better fit. I was born in Staten Island, New York, and raised in New Jersey. Never a fan of New Jersey, newly single and nothing to tie me down, I decided I would venture off to figure out where I wanted to live. I decided I would go on a solo journey to four places I had never been and see which would steal my heart. I got on a plane headed to Phoenix and the whole time on the flight I was reciting back to myself "THIS IS CRAZY, WHAT ARE YOU DOING." Which, at the time was terrifying, but also freeing. I ventured through Sedona taking in the glorious, sunny red rocks and the perfect sunsets and sunrises. I went on a hike to Cathedral Rock and headed off to the Grand Canyon. Visiting the Grand Canyon for me, like most will say, was surreal. It was damn cold (end of November), but it was magical. I perched myself on this boulder and watched the sunset over the majestic canyon that mother earth gave us.Next, I went to Page, where I saw Antelope Canyon & Horseshoe Bend. On my drive back to the airport, I was reflecting on the past few days. It had been established- Arizona was at the top of my list. I flew to Colorado, which- full disclosure, I had seen before. A few months prior I took a trip to see my favorite band at Red Rocks. But having only seen Colorado in summer, I wanted to see it again in winter to be sure I loved it in all seasons. It turns out, I did. I decided at 25 I didn't want to wake up at 50 still living in New Jersey and ask myself...Why did I never explore if I wanted to live anywhere else? Why did I allow myself to just settle in this place that I grew up even if I've never loved it here? So all I ask of you, is to PLEASE explore before you decide to settle down in your hometown. Whether it be internationally (if you want to live in a different country- more power to you), or domestically. But whatever you do, be 100% sure in your decision, because it could last a lifetime.